Thursday, March 17, 2011

What to do wen u love someone more than ur life and just got pains in returns?



There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this: When people can walk away from you: let them walk!

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

LET THEM GO!

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something, I've got the gift of goodbye - It's the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in goodbye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have, He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

LET THEM GO!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...

LET THEM GO!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...

LET THEM GO!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...

LET THEM GO!

If someone has angered you...

LET THEM GO!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge...

LET THEM GO!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...

LET THEM GO!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents...

LET THEM GO!

If you have a bad attitude...

LET THEM GO!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...

LET THEM GO!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......

LET THEM GO!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves...

LET THEM GO!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed...

LET THEM GO!

Get Right or Get Left, think about it, and then...

LET THEM GO!

6 comments:

  1. well, every time its not so easy to just LET THEM GO......

    BTW a well penned write up... CONGRATS.

    best wishes,
    irfan.

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  2. @Irfan thankyou somuch for visiting my blog n realy it is not easy "let them go"....... but only when there is no option

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  3. Letting go is widening the life and receiving the growth.

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  4. @Arpana Exactly! :-) n thanku somuch for visiting my blog

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  5. try to sort out the differences if any.

    love is great and beautiful.

    with out love our life seems to be empty,its just my opinion.

    true love never dies.

    may be sometimes due to some misunderstandings one feel depressed and annoyed.and doubt the existence of love.



    love is beautiful.

    sacrificing life for love is meaningful.

    even using the term sacrificing is also meaningless in true love.

    just dying for for belovedis great.

    so don't lose that much easy.

    after reading this post, it senses that there exists some understandings let it sort out.

    first time here. your blog is beautiful. nicely expressed.

    always behappy and keep smiling.

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  6. @Sagar thnk u so much for visiting n admiring my blog n i completely agreee with ur opinion tht with out love life is empty, in any step of life u need ally friend or a person with whome u express ur feelings n happiness :-))))))

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